• Free to fly

    Free to fly is for every woman, every mum, and every stay-at-home mum, written with you in mind to help you thrive on your journey, to give you the permission to be free to be who you want to be, and give you the smarts to make it work.

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    Tomilola Olatunde

    Tomilola Olatunde is a trained computer scientist who shelved her ambition to be an IT guru to become a stay-at-home and homeschooling mum.


    In her free time, she does product photography and runs her blog (www.thecuddleblog.com) where she documents her motherhood journey.


    She's married to Deji Olatunde and they have 2 boys.


    Chapter 1 ········································· 01

    A stay-at-home mum: To be or not to be          

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    Can you shame the shameless?

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    The challenges of being a stay-at-home mum

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    Ways you are contributing to your home as a stay-at-home mum

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    Financial dependence

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    Practical steps to implement in case of loss of a 31spouse

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    How to not feel left behind in your career as a 42stay-at-home mum

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    Mehn. This work is more than a thing! It’s hooge!!! What??

    You did amazing, so detailed & comprehensive. You touched almost everywhere

    Well done! It’s a great work.

    Thank you for speaking up for us & inspiring. Like I feel bumped to sit up!!!

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    Its relatable, its simple, it's honest, it's helpful. The relatability of each chapter is the highlight for me and where you talked about isolation after marriage is my favourite part. The truth there is just the ish. Like I'm reading it and I can say, yes I get this and feel the same way. Well done and thank you for the book.

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    It's a very helpful book. It's a real-life saver for lots of mums out there, especially with the relatable tips and organizational hacks shared. Stay-at-home mums can now go about this phase of their lives with an extra spring in their steps, because we're now armed with the right information!

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    I just finished the book, and it was so enthralling, I burnt my son's dinner Seriously Tomi, twale You took me on a journey back to the beginning, the fears and anxiety that comes with being a SAHM. The current struggle to find a balance is not left out. Then you also addressed a major issue and that is " jumping into any business in the bid to have money”